Monday 2 April 2012

Introverts

In the last few weeks the nature of introverts has been the subject of conversation on a regular basis. There have been articles by the BBC and the Guardian newspaper as well as images like the one above appearing on facebook. It's as if the notion of introversion has been rediscovered and the quiet people are being noticed again. Which by the way, if you are an introvert, being noticed in and of itself is a bit of a worry. Nevertheless a contemplative, reflective personality, need not be downtrodden or overwhelmed in the modern world. There are qualities that the more gentle people have to offer that provide balance and wholeness to our collective experience. We need all kinds of people. No one is better or more special than anyone else. This is not an agenda of affirmative action or positive discrimination in favour of introverts. It's all ok. The world is non-dualistic. We do not need to focus on polarities. It is not an either or situation. It is merely a recognition of the qualities of introverts and an appreciation of how to be comfortable in the modern world if this is your predilection. Nor is the act of taking care of yourself as an introvert a proclamation of selfishness. Why, if you don't nurture and nourish yourself how else can you be supportive and present to others? So let's celebrate the diversity of personalities and be thankful that we are not all the same. Life is so much more colourful because of our differences. Yeah to the introverts and their desire for quietness, privacy and presence. May the world be a more welcoming, open, inclusive, understanding, considerate and accepting place of the unique characteristics of each one of us.

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